How your Soul Programs you from Birth
When you are born, your soul has already made choices as to what you will experience in your life, which is why when you meet certain people you will experience what feels like a soul connection. Like you have already known them before and you can't explain how you know that, you just feel it. You come into this world into your physical body and your brain is like a computer. it has to be programmed to function. You have to learn to eat, crawl, walk, talk, interact in society. This is all taught to you by your mother, father, grandparents, carers, siblings, Television, media. You absorb and download all this information into your programming up until the age of 7. This is all done automatically in your subconscious mind. You know when you first learn to type on a keyboard and then with practice you can type automatically without even looking at the keys because you just know on a subconscious level where they are, it's the same as what you learnt as a young child, it becomes automatic. From the age of 7 onward you become more conscious of your surroundings and start to do things in your own way. No one reminds you how to breathe, talk, walk, eat, you do it automatically on a subconscious level.
The way in which you think and what you believe in life is all coming from the thoughts that were programmed into you at a young age. Unless you have questioned these thoughts. When people have certain religious beliefs are they coming from what they just know as truth or are they coming from what was taught to them as a child or what they read as a child and it feels right for them to believe that. When people have certain money beliefs, have they heard their parents saying "we always have just enough, or we are always going to struggle, or you should not be greedy in life?" and it is instilled in you to never have enough money because it's considered greedy to want more. When children have parents who expect a lot from them and they are expected to follow so many rules and if they mess up with a rule they will be punished, this can lead to feeling anxious as a child and then adult to always need to prove to others they are good enough. A child who can see through the eyes of love and see how much pain their parents are in, will often take on the role that the parent is supposed to and this sees a role reversal of the child being the dominant one and the parent catering to their needs.
Think back to experiences that happened to you between the ages of birth and 7 years of age and see if you can relate it to what is happening in your life as an adult. For myself I recall my mother being so upset with me one day when I was 4 years of age, she told me she didn't want me anymore. I can see now, that she was obviously having a really tough time in her own life and I had just added to her frustration with something I did wrong and she couldn't cope, so she didn't know what else to do, but to ask me to get out of her life. I remember packing my kindy bag and walking across the street to Mary the neighbour and asking her if I could live with her. She phoned my mother and they had a talk about what was going on. But for me, that feeling of not being wanted lead me down a path of needing to be a people pleaser so that I was accepted.
You will see in your own family and the demands that were put on your parents, who in turn put demands on you as a child and this is what is instilled in your thinking today. Even if you felt entirely loved and protected as a child growing up with a loving family, your thoughts today on how things should be were learnt from that time. How you view the world and morals and what you believe is right or wrong was programmed into you. If you were abused and felt unloved as a child, this will still affect your life today in the manner in which you feel you deserve things in life. It is programmed into you to not expect good things to happen for
you. You will make choices so you don't have to let your parents down because you feel you owe them something and they will remind you that you do owe them because that is the way in which they think as well.
Take a look at the way in which you view life, what you believe is right or wrong, what you have learnt from the way in which you were brought up, how you have managed to survive because of your programming and also know that you can re-program your thoughts. If you are aware that you are operating life from the desires of others and not your true self then use the tools of meditation, hypnosis programming, EFT tapping to change your thought patterns. It's never too late to re-program your thoughts. You can't blame your parents for who you are today, but you can certainly understand life a lot more if you can see how you were programmed